when u play games over the internet with other players do you think its more fun than playng against real live people or the computor game itself?

I've not played over the internet (and W&W doesn't allow it). However, a number of IW regulars play NeverWinterNights (NWN) over the net, often at the IW mod hosted here. Those folks enjoy it a lot... one of these days, I may join them.

I will note that DungeonLords does have a multi-player option, which looks promising. I may try that. The only downside is finding people when I'm ready to play... but then again, that might be a way to find some new friends :D