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Jorath Calar 11-04-2004 11:26 AM

Earlier today I heard from a friend that my old college girlfriend died in a car accident yesterday... she was always so nice even after we broke up, she was one of the most sweetest and most giving person I have known.
We still tried to keep in touch and call each other once in a while and I feel awful because it was so long since I had called her and now it's too late...

I don't know what else to say, I just know she is in a good place now.

philip 11-04-2004 11:29 AM

:( my condolences (sp?)

Xen 11-04-2004 11:45 AM

That's sad. May she RIP. :(

RoSs_bg2_rox 11-04-2004 11:51 AM

That is very sad Jorath, don't feel bad though.

RIP

Bozos of Bones 11-04-2004 02:23 PM

My sincere condolences, Jorath. I can imagine how you must feel now, but try to lighten up.

dplax 11-04-2004 02:29 PM

Losing a friend is always bad. I hope that her memory shall forever live on. Condolences to everyone who knew her.

Calaethis Dragonsbane 11-04-2004 04:39 PM

My condolences. May she RIP.

SomeGuy 11-04-2004 05:07 PM

I'm sorry to hear that. :( Keep the memories you shared with her though and don't ever forget her. May she RIP.

Bungleau 11-04-2004 05:28 PM

It's hard whenever someone passes on. It's harder when they're someone you felt strongly about at one time in the past. And it's even harder when they pass away before their time should be up.

You have my condolences, Jorath. If you're able to, I hope you can make it to the funeral for closure all the way around (yours and her family's). Today's funerals seem to be more of a celebration of a person's life, which has made it easier for me.

May you find peace in this troubled time, and may all her friends and family find comfort.

*B*

Melusine 11-04-2004 05:33 PM

God Jorath, I'm so sorry. My deepest sympathies for your loss. Thankfully I've never had to deal with this type of mourning specifically and I wish you lots of strength and consolation.

Aelia Jusa 11-04-2004 05:46 PM

I'm so sorry to hear that Jorath. I think it's inevitable that when people die we wish that we had done more to let them know how we felt, but it's never enough, especially when they die unexepctedly or well before their time. I'm sure she knew that you cared, so try not to think about what you didn't do, but what you did do.

Gxc 11-04-2004 06:07 PM

Thats so sad :(

RIP.

Variol (Farseer) Elmwood 11-04-2004 07:29 PM

...it is, sad, but I hope we can all take something positive from it. Stay in touch! Whether it's a quick email, a card or a phone call. Most of my friends are a time zone away, but I keep in touch, 'cos frankly, nobody's that busy, and you just never know...

Jorath Calar 11-04-2004 08:06 PM

Thanks everyone, I met with some mutual friends tonight and we just spent the night talking, comforting each other and sharing memories. It was very sad, I have a huge lump in my throat and stomach, but also a good thing to do, I feel much better than I did today.

Thanks again it's good to know you can always count on your fellow Ironworkers... [img]smile.gif[/img]

Ladyzekke 11-04-2004 10:11 PM

So sorry to hear that Jorath, my condolences and sympathy. :( My boss's wife died last month, and I knew her pretty well, she died while I was on summer vacation. It is really hard coming to terms that you will never see that person again, ever. A heartbreak for those that knew her, devastating for those family members that were the closest.

I know how you feel Jorath. Just remember her, remember all the good things, and cherish them, and in time the loss won't feel so intense as it does now. *Hugs*

Kakero 11-04-2004 10:38 PM

Sorry to hear that Jorath, I know what's it feel likes when an old friend dies. I had to undergo the same feeling too few years ago when my very very close friend died. :(

Attalus 11-04-2004 10:59 PM

My condolences, Jorath. I know that I feel similarly when anyone I once loved goes into the Beyond.

The Hierophant 11-04-2004 11:52 PM

Sad to hear that man. Hang in there.

Harkoliar 11-05-2004 01:02 AM

RIP...

Raumiel Hellilenda 11-05-2004 07:38 AM

I am so sorry to hear that.

I am glad you and your friends could comfort each other...it seems a grave loss that she would die so soon. I hear you about guilt. When someone we love die...we feel guilty for all we never did...

Dragonshadow 11-05-2004 10:45 AM

RIP
THoughts to you all...

Bahamut 11-06-2004 11:02 AM

My deepest condolences...

I can imagine your loss. Like you said, she's in a better place now.

Intrepid 11-07-2004 08:46 AM

Gosh,
that reminds me of a friend of mine who's ex-girlfriend comitted suicide, it's a horrible thing to have happen, even after you have brpken up.
I wish you my deepest and warmest condolences, i understand how sad it is, and i hope you get through it.
best of luck! [img]graemlins/thumbsup.gif[/img]

Andrea 11-07-2004 05:27 PM

My condolences. Your optimistic thinking is very good. [img]smile.gif[/img] It will hurt for awhile, but acceptance comes with prayer.


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