Hello everyone, I'm wondering how do I ask out girls that I don't know and get them to say yes?

lol!!! there's a convoluted question

it depends largely on the asker

if you have no confidence, no sense of humour and are always staring at their breasts you have no chance

there isn't a sure-fire way for everybody as it depends on the asker

Everyones an iduvidle, treat em as such. sorry but I cant help [img]tongue.gif[/img] hehe.

dont listen to Yorik, he doesn't know. act like your name sake growling and snarling while smashing things, you will be fine.

[quote]originally posted by Lord Shield

if you have no confidence, no sense of humour and are always staring at their breasts you have no chance[quote]

<font color = aqua> I take it this is from personal experience LS? lol</font>

[quote]Originally posted by canadianvixen:
[quote]originally posted by Lord Shield

if you have no confidence, no sense of humour and are always staring at their breasts you have no chance

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<font color = aqua> I take it this is from personal experience LS? lol</font>

LOL Well thats funny!! I have no confidence but I can B.S. that I have confidence, some what of a sence of humor, and I do keep staring down to a minimum. Any constructive suggestions?

[ 09-14-2002, 03:59 PM: Message edited by: Melkor, The Dark Lord ]

[quote]Originally posted by Melkor, The Dark Lord:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by canadianvixen:

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originally posted by Lord Shield if you have no confidence, no sense of humour and are always staring at their breasts you have no chance Quote: <font color = aqua> I take it this is from personal experience LS? lol</font>

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LOL Well thats funny!! I have no confidence, some what of a sence of humor, and I do keep staring down to a minimum. Any constructive suggestions?

<font color = aqua> None what so ever. You've got me wrapped around your little finger. ;) </font>

well, constructiveness also dedpends on the girl. some like directness, some like wooing, some might like you turning up smothered in butter (don't bet on this one though)

easy answer is to remember they're human just as you are, and think just as anyone else does (though their minds may be incomprehensible for us poor thick males LOL!!!)

I always found that, if you watch their facial cues when you are talking to them, you get a pretty good idea of how receptive they are. Like, if you can make them smile or talk about themselves, they probably would go along for a coffee, or even lunch. Don't ask for a dinner date right away, unless you think that they are crazy about you. Which, since you have to ask, they probably are not. LS' advice about not staring at them, or making crass comments of any kind, is very good. ;)

[ 09-14-2002, 04:13 PM: Message edited by: Attalus ]

How can you like her if you don't know her? If you are going purely on looks then I would be surprised if any attempt at a relationship will work.

I suggest getting to know her first; find out her interests, spend time with her, let her get to know you etc...

Don't just go up to her face and ask her out - sure fire way to get shot down. And by "getting to know her" I don't mean follow her around everywhere with your jaw dropped and a daft look on your face. These things take time but if you want it to work long term, it's what you gotta do ;)

If you're just after a one niter it's diff but PM me if that's the case :D

Well the reason why I'm asking is that I was eating lunch in the caff one day with a friend and he noticed some goodlooking girls checking me out. He ofcoarse suggested that we go over and talk to them, but I disagreed because I didn't know what to say to them so we didn't go over to chat.
Not to mention that there is this one brunette with gorgeous hair in my classes that I like.

Maybe this one will work...

"Hello sweet thang, if you play your cards right, I might let you take me out."

NOT!!!!!!!!!!!! :D

[ 09-14-2002, 04:50 PM: Message edited by: Ronn_Bman ]

This does work but only if you're good looking like me [img]graemlins/blueblink.gif[/img] :D

"grab your coat luv - you've pulled"
"do you like fruit? then suck my **** - it's a peach"

Oh I *have* it! GET to know her! yes, the most obvious answer, get to know her, then ask her out! why didnt I think of this before?! hehe. soz. couldnt resit ;) [img]tongue.gif[/img] :D , have fun. *chuckle*

Go chat to them! You and your friend can walk over and sit down with them and introduce yourselves...chances are if they were eyeing you first they are interested.
That story reminded me of myself and my best friend in H.S. lol. The guys we were checking out did just that and I ended up dating one of them for almost two years. As much as I regret him running away to join the circus and be a clown without telling anybody but his best friend (true story lol) I don't regret for a minute having known/dated him.
:D

It all starts with an introduction and small talk.

Thanx Moni! I think I will do that next time. [img]smile.gif[/img]

Interesting. None of my GFs have become a clown... Though that one did end up in Juvenille Hall. In retrospect, I'll admit that she was a bad choice. :\

Every girl is different. Get to know em, then decide on the best course of action. And don't listen to any of the others' crap lines!!!

The best way is to get to know her. After you've become more familiar with her,nature will take it's course ;) . A friend of mine was totally crazy over this one girl but didn't have the guts to even say hi to her, so he asked me to introducehim to her, and then she fell for me [img]smile.gif[/img] but I turned her down(my friend would have gone crazy if I had gone out with her). Moral of the story: Go forth and talk to her.

as long as you have a big doggie youll be fine. well thats what i look for.lol
actully a sence of humor sensitivity andromance well get any girl. plus you have to be cute.and you should be friends first.

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just remmember, there always 1 guy more useless at asking girls out than you. that guy being me unfortunatly. [img]tongue.gif[/img] :D

All these people are morons.

For Romantic succes you will need to preform the a complicated dance of mating to impress her. First you will need to find some elder beries. Rub them on your armpits until you reek of the things ( if you can get a lemon to wrap in your hair if it is long she will be even more enchanted). This scent will set the tone of your meeting. Now approach her and strip to the waist. Make sure you have drawn charcoal patterns of your chest first. Almost forgot that bit. Now squat down and dance around her kicking your feet forwards while chanting the theme tune to your favorite washing poweder advert. A good tip is to support yourself by tying a a large pole to your pack, bound to keep you vertical more or less. Now if she dosnt run away screaming and calling for the cops (highly unlightly) she will swoon with love.

If anybody offers you chloroform run very fast.

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The worst part about that whole relationship is when I went to the circus (with a date) when I was 21 and the story of his disappearance was confirmed...there was his name and his clowned-up face in the program. I didn't have the guts to ask my date if he minded me going down to talk to him after the show...turned out I didn't have the guts to talk to him at all as before the circus left town I saw him in the downtown area across the street from where I worked, seemingly contemplating with his best friend (same best friend lol, still driving the same car too although I don't know how it made it the 2000 miles from where we had all grown up lol) whether or not he should come talk to me.
They let me walk away and I never looked back.
I regret that too. I would have loved to have told him that I thought his going all out for such a far fetched dream was really cool. [img]smile.gif[/img]

Now thats a crazy idea if I ever heard of one!

No no no, you got it all wrong. Take a club, hit one in the head and drag her back in to your cave. No need to talk, talk is cheap anyway. Take my advice, and you'll score for sure. :D [img]graemlins/showoff.gif[/img]

Well yeah! Duh! Unconscious-bleeding-from-the-head-chicks don't normally put up a fight! ;) [img]tongue.gif[/img]

Well yeah! Duh! Unconscious-bleeding-from-the-head-chicks don't normally put up a fight! ;) [img]tongue.gif[/img] </font>[/QUOTE]ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yeah like I want to get arrested and thrown in jail........ *shakes head*

Tell here that she have nice tit`s then she will say yes Melkor LOL :D [img]graemlins/showoff.gif[/img]

[ 09-14-2002, 10:34 PM: Message edited by: Megabot ]

And then slap me silly.

And then slap me silly.</font>[/QUOTE]No they LOVE to hear that they have nice breast`s and also say she have nice hair then she is yours for sure! :D

And then slap me silly.</font>[/QUOTE]No they LOVE to hear that they have nice breast`s and also say she have nice hair then she is yours for sure! :D </font>[/QUOTE]I hope you're kidding and I hope Melkor knows that...forget slapping, bring out the chainsaw...

btw, Melkor, this has probably been said, but why don't you "know" her before you decide you like her. [img]tongue.gif[/img]

And then slap me silly.</font>[/QUOTE]No they LOVE to hear that they have nice breast`s and also say she have nice hair then she is yours for sure! :D </font>[/QUOTE]Right........... Me spidy sences are telling me to NOT try that idea. LOL

why not get your friend to try and mug em and then you do some karate stuffs and 'kick that mother's ass' and then they'll love you.... well maybe not... what happenjed on page 2... i never read it... erm why not just go up and say 'hello' or 'hi' it works for me.... but then again what i lack in looks i make up for in personality and sense of humour...
hey dude wanna go on a date?
<s>Felix</s>

And then slap me silly.</font>[/QUOTE]No they LOVE to hear that they have nice breast`s and also say she have nice hair then she is yours for sure! :D </font>[/QUOTE]I hope you're kidding and I hope Melkor knows that...forget slapping, bring out the chainsaw...

btw, Melkor, this has probably been said, but why don't you "know" her before you decide you like her. [img]tongue.gif[/img] </font>[/QUOTE]LOL LOL Yeah i only kidding hehehe but Melkor only go and talk to here and if she is interested she listen to you then you can ask here if she want to go to se a movie or something then you are on your way so dont be shy only go and talk to here you can`t be killed for doing that so go on! [img]tongue.gif[/img]

I'll give it a shot Megabot. [img]smile.gif[/img] BTW Lioness I knew that he was joking and I would NEVER do the crazy things he suggested.

You said that you didn't have anything to say to her in the cafeteria... Here's what you should have done.
Grab a bottle of water, and take it over to her.
Lean over the table real casual and say to her,
"Would you like some water, because your lookin' pretty hot."
[img]graemlins/thumbsup.gif[/img] go get um' tiger!

good one or you could casually lean over onto a desk and fall and wehn she pciks u up (unless shes mean thn u kick her when she giggles and walks off and you think i wish id taken up Felix's offer,...) you say 'bloody hell that hurt my ass is stingin like a bloody erm stingy thing' and shes says 'i didnt want to know that' *drops you and walks off* hmmn maybe i shoudl stop quoting from personal happenings....
<s>Felix</s>

OMG that is one funny pickup line!

i geuss you eman the other guys cuz mine was a 'pick up get dropped back onn ass' line....