have i done somthing wrong here??????

i have gotten pms from people swearing at me and cussing me out just because of my sig????

you know some of you people are assholes.

and you know who you are.. the ones that have respected me have been johnny, dizzy, and tones of others... i just can't remeber the names cuz there is so many of them.

mouse you told me to come back cuz you said just to give it time.. well I am still here and putting up with this... how long untill I can actually be respected here?

half of you are so anal about my jokes and take them so personally and pick at my messages like it was new york steak.

i mean godsakes guys! i used to help mod the forums at black isle 2 years ago!!!

you even have rules on insulting people and yet people do it on an everyday basis... stating opinions should be ok.. but not insults.. i mean the rules are there... or sorry i forgot they are there for just me but not any of you.. just becuase i actually think differntly then some of you..

i left in the beggining the first time because of the exact same reasons... and now i feel like a retard for comming back.

[ 07-16-2002, 08:26 AM: Message edited by: -vixen ]

Not to me Marcy, but you're making yourself an open target here. :D

lol yes i know johnny [img]smile.gif[/img]

Heya Marcy only THAT over here will make peoples here maby angry so be prepared! :D

I like you and think you are cool so not all here are mad at you or something like that, why not start to reply nicely in other topic`s and you will se that you will be popular wery soon, so take it easy Marcy and this will be great for you to :D , to be here and maby make som new friends to! [img]graemlins/thumbsup.gif[/img]

hmmm i quite like your sig

Oh, so you like being a target ?

well those people that pmed and started swearing at me and telling me how much of a sick dike i was... yeah they were assholes...

> :(

Hi -vixen,
Personally I like your style; hard, fast and from the hip but I'm sure you're aware that some people aren't as comfortable with this as others and so long as you respec them, they've got no choice but to respec you. That's how I see it anyway [img]smile.gif[/img]

yes i know...that, but does that give them a right to call me a dike and start swearing at me?

but i am not getting respected here.. from a certain group of individuals.....

hmmmm... tone?

[ 07-16-2002, 08:39 AM: Message edited by: -vixen ]

That's wrong!
I'd suggest sending the PMs on to the mods or even Z himself, IW is usually alot better than that.

you know thats funny! cuz i really dont think the mods will do anything haha !... even if i do have proof!

the only one that would probably do somthing would be mouse because he is actually a cool person to talk to!

[ 07-16-2002, 08:42 AM: Message edited by: -vixen ]

I personally haven't had a problem with you -vixen, until you posted about demanding respect... ;)

Respect is earned, never demanded.

oh ok so your saying is new users that sign up for IW shouldn't get respect in here so it is ok for them to swear at new users and pm them calling them a dike or a fag just because you feel they should have to earn it!!!!!

[ 07-16-2002, 08:46 AM: Message edited by: -vixen ]

If I could make a suggestion, vixen?

Nobody is saying that you can't individualize yourself here - the move individuality someone brings to a forum, the more interesting and diverse that forum becomes, which is a good thing. [img]graemlins/thumbsup.gif[/img]

Maybe it's like moving to a new school - you need to get a feel for the environment, and give people time to get comfortable with you. Doesn't mean you need to compromise your individuality - it just means that you act with a little more reserve and tact just after you join. You don't want people getting the wrong impression of you, and not getting the chance to know who you really are. [img]smile.gif[/img]

I normally find that if you treat someone with respect, you will always receive respect. You don't have to like them or agree with them - but respecting their right to an opinion, and giving everyone a fair hearing - this is all part of the give-and-take of being in a social environment, be it online or offline. And people here are normally very friendly - maybe YOU need to drop your guard and give them a chance to get to know you. [img]smile.gif[/img]

Just my 2c. [img]smile.gif[/img]

I have allredy suggested that in an PM to Marcy allredy Downunda :D

So Marcy read my pm to you!

you shouldn really give a toss what other people perhaps narrow minded others think of you vixen..

To narrow down Memnoch's last paragraph:
"what you give is what you get"

:rolleyes: let us not judge too quickly

dont make so much out of it vixen. its just a forum. if people insult you, ignore them and just talk to the ones that treat you nicely. in real life, nobody would say to your face this things, cause theyd know they get their arses kicked. personally, i think your sigs and your posts are ok. no prob with them whatsoever.

but, then, i hardly have any problems with most things, so. [img]tongue.gif[/img]

Hmm, maybe I´m not seeing the problem here but what´s the prob with the sig? Does anyone find that pic offensive or am I completely missing the point here? (I´m not that smart as you guys think! Hmm, does that make me an idiot? LOL! :D )

[ 07-16-2002, 09:02 AM: Message edited by: WillowIX ]

It's already changed... I think it was quoted in one of the other threads, though...

vixen, if peolpe are swearin gat you and being abusive, you should report them to Ziroc. Whether or not they find the sig objectionable (personally I like it) they have no right to do such a thing

But don't let them trick you into flaming on the forum itself

*hug*

The people that insult you and pick at you are obvioulsy very immature and childish, my best advice is to just ignore them.
And by the way, I think you're a cool person Vixen, I'd hate to see you leave ;) :D

-vixen id beshocked if the abuse youve had surpasses some forums i signed upo a fear factory forum and got so much abuse and so little respect just because i hadfew posts and in many forums that is the case but i know Iw isnt like that at all so you should reportwho ever it is giving you sh*t.

Kalum

Vixen, I don't know what went down, but what *I SEE* is you PUBLICLY calling people assholes, and you KNOW (If you read the rules) that this is NOT allowed here.

I don't know if you're just looking for attention or what, but you need to drop the 'I'm a tough motherfucker' attitude, and people will warm up to ya. Everyone is different, and you gotta expect some people to not like you. it's life--sucks ass, I know, but hey, ignore them!

I personally find your sig very nice, and even artistic. If you drew that, you got a damn sweet talent!! :D

I am closing this now-- this is just a warning, don't attack people. if someone harasses you, email me, I'll deal with them on a private level.