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well seeing everybodys posts about what they have going on made me want to get my thoughts out. dont mean to get anybody down.
to give a frame of reference: during the 2week period that the board was down, i totalled my car. 2 days later, my girlfriend of 2 1/2 years moved out of our appartment. i'm still waitng for my insurance company to give me my check for the car. i cant get another one till they pay off my loan. my rent was due on the first, along with most of my other bills. and when she moved out it left me in a financial mess. i managed to get enough money together to pay the rent ontime but the check i wrote hit the bank before the deposit did. so it bounced. which tagged on a nice returned check fee and late fee. when she left she left both of the cats here but took the vacum cleaner with her. she came and got the cats later. but i still have kat litter every where that i cant even clean up. the pipe under my sink that goes to the drain busted so i cant wash dishes or anything. i really dont want to call the maintenance man till i can get the place cleaned up a little. she also took the bed when she left. so i've been sleeping on a couch bed, that sucks to top this off my company (which shall remain nameless) is about to start a major round of layoff's. my manager was walked out today. so i dont even know if i'll have a job next week. well there you have it. if you actually sat and read all of that, i'm sorry for loading you down with that. but i feal like yall are family. so here it is. ------------------ http://slackerboy4.tripod.com/golem07.gif http://slackerboy4.tripod.com/slackerboy02.gif http://slackerboy4.tripod.com/golem10.gif http://www.123imagehost.com/images/bg2guy/blank.gif http://cwm.ragesofsanity.com/contrib...ssbonesgif.gif Lord of the Screen Shot http://cwm.ragesofsanity.com/contrib...ssbonesgif.gif http://www.123imagehost.com/images/bg2guy/blank.gif Get My IronWorks Winamp skin |
Hey what are friends for? Sorry to hear about everthing.
The Fed just dropped the interest rate another .5 point to stimulate the economy a suprise move maybe the beancounters at your company will thunk again. ------------------ http://www.123imagehost.com/images/b...arrissig02.gif "the memories of a man in his old age, are deeds of a man in his prime" |
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As I remember, a girlfriend calling it quits could be more than enough to occupy my mind. Slacerboy, my friend, you have a full plate. http://www.tgeweb.com/cgi-bin/ubb/no...miles/crap.gif Vent as you feel the need. Corporate downsizing is prevalent in both the tech and manufacturing sectors so if you are laid off and are mobile you may want to consider an area with a local economy not reliant on either of these. If you're financial situation is dire, e-mail me. I may or may not be able to help but I do work in the financial sector and may have some suggestions you would find helpful. God Bless. [This message has been edited by onthepequod (edited 05-15-2001).] |
When it rains it pours and I am sorry you got rained on.
I have had it as tough as you but not for a long long time Thank God. (just prior to moving to Texas, I had two vehicles, one car and one motorcycle, stolen with no insurance against theft http://www.tgeweb.com/cgi-bin/ubb/no...iles/frown.gif ...while at the same time, my boyfriend was losing himself to crack cocaine, (I loved him but had to dump him), the plumbing was out in my kitchen and my vacuum was on the blink...with a cat in the house! Not to mention having to lug laundry on a bicycle a mile to the laundry mat) Life sucked but it did get better once I focused on my priorities and let all the other problems kiss the wind so to speak. I really feel for you and your situation. I wish I could help you but there is nothing I can do except give you a (virtual) hug, tell you that I care and let you know that I will keep you in my prayers. I hope you can keep your job. Ask a friend for a vacuum so you can call the maintenance man...at least you don't have to pay for that repair yourself! As far as sleeping on the couch goes, I did it for over ten years...too poor to afford a two bedroom place until I bought my home and I always let my son have the one bedroom in the duplexes we rented...you don't have to get used to it and that is a good thing! See about renting to own new furniture (they even deliver) once you are sure your financial sitiuation is secure. These places seem like rip-offs and ARE if you make the payments a little at a time as per contracts but if you pay larger amounts and pay it off earlier, you can really save some money. I got my son a decent Fischer stereo/CD changer/cassette recorder with Dolby surround sound at a lower than retail price by going that route. It will all work out my friend and if there is anything I can do for you short of sending you money because I work in exchange for room and board, just let me know. Love, Hugs & Peace, Moni ------------------ http://members.aol.com/lasttrueprincess/images/ltp4.gif [This message has been edited by Moni (edited 05-15-2001).] |
Don't worry Slacker, things will get better. The key is to stay positive. http://www.tgeweb.com/cgi-bin/ubb/no...miles/wink.gif
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Slackerboy, so sorry to hear about all your troubles. I know it sounds like things can't get any worse, but try to take it one day at a time and deal with one thing at a time. It will get better. We've all had times like these and we've all gotten through them. If you need some cheering up, this is the place to come.
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Slackerboy,
So sorry for all the problems you have had dumped on you at once. I'm glad that you shared this with us. We like to think of ourselves as a community, and how can we be that if we do not support each other in good times and in bad. Wish there was something I could do. Try to take things one day at a time, that should help you past the crisis. And please share with us what is going on in your life. We are interested and care. Hugs! ------------------ O_H_F http://publish.hometown.aol.com/tobb...ages/reeka.jpg |
Sorry to hear about all the trouble.
Going by the fact that you are in TN, I think I know what company you work for. Well I'm in Texas and it's rumored that our department is about to get hit tomorrow..... Although it appears you may have quite a bit more biting at your heals than I. As someone mentioned earlier...priorities...keep those in mind and forget about the rest. Don't worry about tomorrow for each day has its own worries. |
Well i don't want to say iam sorry cuz everybody seemed to cover that. But i would like to say that eventually problems go away just hang in there man. Like that one song said "Don't worry be happy" (this song lyric is probably the most hated song lyric of all time)
But anywayz, take care and since you sound like ur going through hell don't stop keep going eventually hell will end and heaven comeshttp://www.tgeweb.com/cgi-bin/ubb/no...miles/tdo9.gif ------------------ That's just my opinion, I could be wrong. |
Slackerboy
A little sympathy, a little advice. Hope one or both helps you! Sometimes life throws us curveballs. You just got a whole lot of them at once! http://www.tgeweb.com/cgi-bin/ubb/no...iles/frown.gif My attitude? Wail on 'em, you'll hit one sooner or later! http://www.tgeweb.com/cgi-bin/ubb/no...es/biggrin.gif Know anyone who will lend you a vacuum for a day or two? Borrow it, call the maintenance people and get back to living comfortably! Sympathies on the girlfriend leaving. That has to have made everything else look worse, but you sound like you are dealing with it and I commend you! http://www.tgeweb.com/cgi-bin/ubb/no...iles/smile.gif The job is a tough one. It sounds like you aren't sure you're on the axe list, so I'm hoping you stay, but get that resume out and polish it up! It might help you feel more in control of the situation if you actually send that resume out to a few places. Even if you don't get laid off, you'll have some exposure and who knows what could happen?! Don't feel bad about sharing your troubles. The burdens get a little lighter when shared. http://www.tgeweb.com/cgi-bin/ubb/no...iles/smile.gif I sure do wish you all the best! Let us know how things go?! Cloudy ------------------ http://publish.hometown.aol.com/tobb...s/bestow~1.jpg Raindancer of the Laughing Hyenas Clan Storm-Queen StormCloud of the Black Knight Heart Mind Soul Forever |
Slacker, chin up dude. Believe me I have had some horrible periods in my time, but it is what makes us stronger and wiser. the only thing you can do is take this as a learning tool. My best wishes of luck to you in the future my friend. http://www.tgeweb.com/cgi-bin/ubb/no...iles/smile.gif
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Dear Slackerboy,
Well, what can I say? I'm damned sorry you're going through this mess. If it's any consolation, such messes are rarely permanent...as long as you have your health, you're okay, man. Things WILL get better. Along Cloudy's suggestions...you have any friends around that could come over and help you out with the cleaning? The bit with the cats really sucks...it's bad enough when they're your own, but when they're someone else's and they leave them there, well that really bites. Also: it won't help you now, but later when you've pulled yourself together a bit, check with your bank and see if they offer "overdraft protection." It can really help in emergency situations such as yours. Don't holler 'till you're hit...that is, if you still have a job, don't fret about losing it. Worry will get you nowhere. Be poised if something should happen, but you have enough real things to concern yourself with right now without adding a possibility to the plate. Maybe check with some used furniture places after your next paycheck and see if you can come up with a secondhand bed that still functions well...or check to see if anyone you know is moving and wants to get rid of their bed. (I did that years ago when I was in college...got a bed for free off someone who was moving. It lasted me 12 years. http://www.tgeweb.com/cgi-bin/ubb/no...iles/smile.gif ) This is not the time to be proud...whatever works, get it! My heart's out to you. I hope everything settles down for you again soon, and that you'll be back on top again. http://www.wizardrealm.com/images/saz1.gif |
Slacker, friend and bro...
Sorry to hear what's going on... and, yes, troubles are bastards, they tend to gang up on us. As has already been mentioned, these things are temporary. One thing I can say with certainty is that you are going to get through this. It's easy to see your intelligence, insight, and sense-of-humor in your posts. All of these things will do well for you in this time of trouble. Speaking from experience, prior AND present, you will find ways. There have already been some good suggestions posted, so I won't bore you with mine. When you get past this, we'll laugh and share ramen-noodle recipes (I know a bunch) and laugh about the past and dream about the future. Keep posting, and sharing, with us all. Your BrotherDawg ------------------ http://publish.hometown.aol.com/tobb...s/rudedawg.jpg http://www.phpshop.net/images/bg2guy/cov09.jpg The RudeDawg Known in these Forgotten Realms as Perin LightEyes and my girlfriends, Pamila and Pfil |
Geez... That is not good at all.
Can't say much, but I read what you said, because I was interested, and I hope that means something to you. After reading that, I shall endeaver not to complain about my life for a week! Even if there is not much to smile about, try and keep positive, it might just help a bit. ------------------ http://kung_lao.tripod.com/sylent_05.gif http://kung_lao.tripod.com/1.gif "Watch your back" |
thanks guys.
now that i've dumped all the bad stuff. i should post the positive side. just to even it out. yeah it sucks to have your girlfriend leave. but, its for the best. the relationship had been going south for awhile. we will both be happier now. she took the bed, but at least i had the sleeper sofa, so iwasnt totaly screwed. and i have already put a deposit on a new matress set. i do still have a steady income so far (your right Sazerac). i'm borrowing my Mom's car, she's gonna be in the hospital for a few days. she had surgery. she's fine http://www.tgeweb.com/cgi-bin/ubb/no...es/biggrin.gif. but i'll beable to go look for a car tomorrow. the bank should probably lend me the money even though the loan hasnt been paid yet. i have documentation to show that it will be paid by the insurance company (who will be getting a very friendly call tomorrow. i'm gonna get my brothers vacum cleaner. he moved in with my parents again so he doesnt need it. (i need to remember to call my parents when i need help, or even when i dont. idont call them enough) i got to looking at the pipe. i think i can probably fix it my self for about $3-$4. as far as my job goes. i feal fairly confident that my job is safe, but you never know. but if it does happen. i believe the severance package will include job placement assistance. so it should end up fine either way. but i do like my job. (bourban- we'll find out over the next couple of days wont we http://www.tgeweb.com/cgi-bin/ubb/no...iles/smile.gif) <font color=limegreen>well, thanks to all of you, your comments really make me feel better. i'll be sure to keep you informed.</font> http://www.tgeweb.com/cgi-bin/ubb/no...es/biggrin.gif ------------------ http://slackerboy4.tripod.com/golem07.gif http://slackerboy4.tripod.com/slackerboy02.gif http://slackerboy4.tripod.com/golem10.gif http://www.123imagehost.com/images/bg2guy/blank.gif http://cwm.ragesofsanity.com/contrib...ssbonesgif.gif Lord of the Screen Shot http://cwm.ragesofsanity.com/contrib...ssbonesgif.gif http://www.123imagehost.com/images/bg2guy/blank.gif Get My IronWorks Winamp skin [This message has been edited by slackerboy (edited 05-16-2001).] |
Good going, Slackerboy! Keep focusing on the good, and the bad generally takes care of itself. We're all pulling for you.
Just as an example, last week I got wind that there was a lot of shakeup going through our company (IT/career skills school) and that corporate was moving in, going to reshape a lot of positions, blah, blah, blah...anyway, rumors were flying all over the place, my supervisor (lady network administrator who I like a LOT because she's such a straight shooter; a reserve army sergeant) is looking at getting another position, and I was going haywire with worry. Then I talked it over with my wife and she suggested that I start looking too, but not to let it get to me. Well, lo and behold, this week we have a meeting, the corporate structure is NOT moving in on us, a couple of upper-level admin positions are getting redefined, and everything's going to be fine. Shows how much of a mountain one can make out of a molehill. Grapevines are great, as long as they don't turn into hysteria. There's a motto I've learned to live by: "Why worry? It'll probably never happen." It's true...most of the things we worry about never manifest. I'm really glad to hear you got a plan of action. Rely on your friends for strength and support, too...that's why they're friends. http://www.tgeweb.com/cgi-bin/ubb/no...iles/smile.gif http://www.wizardrealm.com/images/saz1.gif |
Focus on the good but don't forget the bad
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A howl to you friend!
I know what you are going through! Been in a similiar position! I´m very sad to hear you being at the bad end of things. i hope it will turn out to the better real soon for you! And well, don´t feel like you getting us down friend! As someone else said, what are friends for!? We are here for you, mostly we can only listen and encourage you to go on. Know that many wished we could do more.. If things feels to bad, try a howl, might sound silly, but it sure feels better after .. Good luck friend! ------------------ http://wolfgir.najk.net/name.gif WOLF WINS EVERY FIGHT BUT ONE, AND IN THAT ONE, HE DIES |
Slackerboy, you strike me as being a very positive person who can always look at the upside yet learn from the downside. I have all the confidence that you will take this all in your stride and find a way to get things to work out for you in the end. Your second post was proof of that.
Good luck, mate. http://www.tgeweb.com/cgi-bin/ubb/no...iles/smile.gif ------------------ http://www.angelfire.com/anime2/memnoch/genwalk.gif http://www.angelfire.com/anime2/memnoch/memname.GIF |
If all else fails look take out your pipe and get yourself some herbal medication.
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get a new lock to keep your girlfriend out
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Slackerboy, just keep your chin up. Do the little things you can to make things better, and everything else will work itself out. My company went through a BIG shake up in FEB. All the management got axed, and they cut half the staff. I ended it with a promotion and a 20% raise. I'm not going to try to figure that one out...so sometimes things work for the best. http://www.tgeweb.com/cgi-bin/ubb/no...iles/smile.gif BK |
Glad to hear that you are keeping yourself moving and getting things done.
Well as of today I still am employed and in the clear. Well at least for now http://www.tgeweb.com/cgi-bin/ubb/no...iles/smile.gif Hope it works out for you, whichever way it goes. Keep us posted. |
Everyone has bad patches from time to time, I just try to get them behind me as quickly as possible, then carry on enjoying myself like before.
Anyway, it sounds like things are beginning get better - hope it carries on that way. |
Congratulations on your lord ao status bk.
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Good to see you're starting to bounce back, Slack
. My brother recently had his fiancee leave him for some American sailor. He's moved back in with Mum temporarily, but looks like he'll be staying with me at some point . She racked up his Credit Card bill and 6 months' worth of international calls (which he has since blocked on the phone) - we're here, dood, so is your family |
When you were feeling really bad, you helped me..You are a unselfish person and good things happen..Conan p.s. Music helps.
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heres the hitch:
why did she leave you? if it was about money, im sorry, but i have to say shes a bitch. but if it aint bout the money, why would she leave you on a time like this- on where you need her love and support... the cornerstone of all relationships!!! geez... she stole everything(not really) and left you all the shit! you make it sound that she just left you. what really happened? ------------------ http://publish.hometown.aol.com/tobb...es/bahamut.gif http://www.123imagehost.com/images/s...y/chiharu1.gif I am Bahamut... and this Chiharu. |
oh yeah.. the positive side... "God doesn't give us problems we cannot handle..." ALWAYS keep that in mind.
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