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Ramon de Ramon y Ramon 03-07-2001 11:46 PM

LadyWendy, I am awfully sorry, but this a complete and utter misunderstanding !

The song was in no way meant as a comment/payback for anything on the "LadyWendy" thread, but as an unintentionally self-ironic and self-derogatory comment by the guy I was roleplaying here about himself: you know the kind of presumptuous guy who always thinks he is sooo much smarter than the girl/ woman while in reality it is the other way around. That was the idea behind my last post and nothing else. The YOU in the song is a HE as, at least the version I know, is sung by a female artist and that was what I meant to say that HE is so vain without even realizing it.

It was far from my mind, and always will be, to hurt you and if I unintentionally did hurt you, I am awfully sorry. http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...iles/frown.gif

I can only hope that you will believe and forgive me.


Well, that should teach me to be more careful when roleplaying. Damn it !

Good night to you, LadyWendy !

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Please, everybody help me by keeping this thread from freefalling, so that she gets to see my apology. And, please tell her about it when you "see" her anywhere else here. Thank you ! http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...iles/frown.gif

Btw, if you want to know what happened it is on the "Quote-Unquote" thread.
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[This message has been edited by Ramon de Ramon y Ramon (edited 03-07-2001).]

[This message has been edited by Ramon de Ramon y Ramon (edited 03-07-2001).]

Griever 03-07-2001 11:58 PM

dont worry bout it ramon... as long as you mean it, i will forgive you, and im sure my sis will! http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...es/biggrin.gif

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Griever 03-08-2001 12:00 AM

yay!!! im magister too!!!! woopee!!!

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LadyRae 03-08-2001 12:24 AM

To quote myself (jeesh! how conceited! http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...iles/cwm34.gif )

I hope LadyZ doesn't stay mad (CCCOOOOMMMMEEE BBBAAACCCKKKK LLLLAAADDDDYYYZZZZ WEEEE NNNEEEEEEDDDDD YYYOOOOOUUUUU!!!!!! http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...miles/wink.gif )



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Memnoch 03-08-2001 12:37 AM

Don't worry Ramon, Zekke will forgive you...maybe...http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...es/biggrin.gif

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Cloudbringer 03-08-2001 01:14 AM

Hi Memny!

LadyZekke having problems? I am just popping in really quickly after our multigame- marathon game...Ramon? Sounds like a nice apology. I hope all is well!


Cloudy

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Accord 03-08-2001 01:34 AM

As per Ramon's request, *BUMP*



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WOLFGIR 03-08-2001 03:31 AM

Well Ramon, it doesn´t need a Bump yet, but I´ll do it anyway, because I feel this is an important thread, we are all far from perfect and some things we write come out harsher, are interpretated (did I get that right??) wrong because the receiver can´t see our faces, hear our voices and see our little mischiefves we sometimes are up to http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...miles/wink.gif, and thus some things get wrong, and well I can admit that alot of things i wright may seem cruel or even selfrighteuos but that is not intentional and i don´t mean to be mean to anyone. I hope that she forgives you cause wwe all need to explain ourselves some time and we need confirmation that they understand. Well BUMP! http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...iles/smile.gif

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Griever 03-08-2001 05:34 AM

geez... miss rainstorm here is already an avatar... wow. http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...es/biggrin.gif

BUMP

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Memnoch 03-08-2001 07:46 AM

Another bump for Ramon

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bilqis 03-08-2001 07:51 AM

*sigh* The difficulties of written communication. Hopefully the day will come when we can express ourselves without misunderstanding when writing. Maybe in by the next millenium.....

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WOLFGIR 03-08-2001 08:11 AM

Well we all have to get webcams and fast internet connections and have videochats instead.. ;D

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Moridin 03-08-2001 09:24 AM

Originally posted by LadyZekke
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OK Gabriel -
See you tomorrow friend!
ps- I think Ramon's getting nasty with me on another thread tonight. Didn't mean to cause any ill feelings. As a matter of fact, this whole battle erupted without my coersion. I got stuck in the middle of it. I thought it was all in good fun.
Ramon and LadyZekke--
Come-on! I read the little dialogue and there was nothing wrong with it. I am not sticking up for Ramon, but that song IS about a man, not a woman and LadyZ it sounds like it was all in jest like Ramon says......just a little role-playing. And remember you are LadyZ, instead of leaving you should have turned and kicked his arse http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...es/biggrin.gif


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Moiraine 03-08-2001 09:25 AM

Sorry, but what is the thread wher all this happened, please ?

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Ramon de Ramon y Ramon 03-08-2001 09:57 AM

Moiraine,

the thread with the misunderstanding between LW and myself is the "Quote-Unquote"-thread.

The one with the "romantic battle" for LW's heart between Stealthy and myself was the "LadyWendy" thread. I think last night LW got the mistaken notion that I wanted to retaliate against her for having been "rejected". http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...iles/frown.gif

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Sir_Tainly 03-08-2001 11:22 AM

Starting to slip down again, so <H2><FONT COLOR="GREEN">BUMP</FONT></H2>

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Xanthul 03-08-2001 12:27 PM

Well ill bump it... Come LadyZekke and forgive this nice man !!! http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...iles/smile.gif

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Accord 03-08-2001 02:33 PM

Just BUMPING.

*BUMP*

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Xanthul 03-08-2001 05:00 PM

Bump ya up !!

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Ladyzekke 03-08-2001 05:22 PM

Good Lord, what is all this? I think you guys thought I was more miffed than I really was. I ended up logging off last night because it was getting late and that is the usual time I log off on any given night. I had no intention of leaving the board. It's going to take more than that!

Ramon - There is nothing to forgive. I wish I had seen your answer last night, because then all this would have been cleared up immediately. I apologize for being mistaken. I shouldn't have jumped the gun. Please don't worry about it because I surely am not. http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...iles/smile.gif I have seen many understandings here on this (and the old) board, I guess it was finally my turn! I am truly embarrassed.

So please do not feel bad, as I do not. After you reply to this, let's please let this thread drop!

Thankyou everyone for your support, even though it was not necessary. You guys are the greatest!

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Vicotnik 03-08-2001 05:52 PM

Ok, I feel like I'm coming down from a 4 month outing on Mount Everest here! http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...miles/wink.gif What's this all about? Anyone care to enlighten me?

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Ladyzekke 03-08-2001 06:00 PM

Sorry Vicotnik - Not really. It was stupid. I hope Ramon comes on soon so this thread can just drop off the face of the planet. Just a misunderstanding of words on another thread. I misunderstood him, he thought I was majorly peeved at him (another misunderstanding), etc. etc. Hey, looking out for that Painter's Jig!

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WOLFGIR 03-08-2001 06:03 PM

Well Vicotnik, some words between Ramon and LadyWebdy were speaken in haste and well Ramon was afraid that she had misunderstood his intentions..

But more, it is to show that people actually do care about their behaviour here. This thread how silly it can seem shows us a wonderful purpose. Things we type can somtimes be harsh and by doing this we can ensure that there is no harsh intentions to our typing nor thoughts!

Good that this has been settled! And good of you Ramon to bring it up! A reminder to us all to show ourselves sometimes between all jokes and chiding http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...miles/wink.gif

WEll gp get each other again heheh..

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Vicotnik 03-08-2001 06:05 PM

oh! dammit I thought that had gone out. I'll get to it right now!

It's going through the sending process, you should have it in 5-10 mins. http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...miles/wink.gif

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Xanthul 03-08-2001 06:18 PM

LadyZekke I sent you a pair of mails, you got them ??

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Ladyzekke 03-08-2001 06:33 PM

Yes Ertai - I got one of them. Don't know about the other? Thanks my friend!

Wolfgir - Well, yes, if this thread helps others than that is a good thing I think!

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sirgwayne 03-08-2001 06:41 PM

I do believe this thread could be DELETED?????http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...iles/smile.gifhttp://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...iles/smile.gifhttp://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...iles/smile.gif

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Yorick 03-08-2001 06:49 PM

No way! The record of human connection on the net is a wonderful thing. We can all learn from this. As Lady said there have been other misunderstandings etc, and I´m glad this time it didn´t involve me http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...iles/smile.gif


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sirgwayne 03-08-2001 06:52 PM

O.K. I'm with ya on the glad it wasn't me parthttp://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...iles/smile.gif

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Ramon de Ramon y Ramon 03-08-2001 07:40 PM

LadyWendy,

I will start off by apologizing to you again. This time for maybe hyping the issue and embarrassing you in the process.

But I did really feel awful last night after reading your last reply. I did, indeed, fear that you might leave the board, if not for good then maybe for quite some time. Not just for the incident with me, as I am surely not that important, but maybe for an accumulation of other little things/issues. To me, then, your post "sounded" as if you had not been just a little miffed but rather bitter, disillusioned and hurt. Probably just another misunderstanding and overinterpretation on my part, but being the cause of such feelings was a thought hard to bear.

A place like this one, as great and friendly as it is, can only function and even thrive like here under the assumption of a basic trust in a mutual respect that has to be upheld at all times, because of the partial anonymity and the limitations of communication only in writing. Sorry, I am lecturing again. http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...iles/frown.gif What I wanted to say is that if my remarks had been really meant the way you interpreted them last night that would have been a major betrayal of that basic trust and it had been perfectly understandable if you had reacted with feelings as strong as I described them above.

Please, don't feel embarrassed or blame yourself for the misunderstanding as I have to assume the by far biggest share of the responsibility for it. I should have been far more careful and realized the potential for ambiguity of that damn
song, especially considering our shared "history" - what an inflated expression in this context - on this board.

I actually love to roleplay, but for me that means mainly playing with stereotypes and cliches, almost always the less than glorious one: I will never be the virtous knight like Bk, but the jerk, the braggant, the imposter, the ignorant fool. For me male characters are only bearable if played with a tongue-in-the-cheek twist to them. I believe from the bottom of my heart that the most prominent characteristic of the gender, I am a less than proud member of, is that we are almost always only one step away from making a complete fool out of ourselves as we are hardly ever half as strong, smart, tough and competent as we think we are. We might not be the weaker, but certainly the more ridiculous sex. Sorry guys. http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...es/biggrin.gif That probably qualifies as high treason. http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...es/biggrin.gif

LadyWendy, I hope you will have a more fun night here today than last night. It will be a lot safer for sure as I am off to bed ( it's 1:23 A.M. here already), but I will be soon back to haunt you again. http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...miles/wink.gif

Good night to you, LadyWendy

Good night to you all, thanks for the bumps and the encouragement ! http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...iles/smile.gif



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Accord 03-08-2001 07:48 PM

Glad things worked out for you all. http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...iles/smile.gif

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Ladyzekke 03-08-2001 08:02 PM

Ramon - Now I feel like we are in an apologizing contest! HA! http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...smiles/485.gif We now both understand eachother and no bad feelings, only warm fuzzy ones! Thanks for answering and please haunt me anytime! http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...miles/wink.gif

Happy Ending folks! Curtain drawing closed now. Thanks for all of your participation!

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LadyRae 03-08-2001 11:09 PM

*sniff* http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...les/crying.gif Happy endings always make me cry!

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Black Knight 03-08-2001 11:19 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Ramon de Ramon y Ramon:


I actually love to roleplay, but for me that means mainly playing with stereotypes and cliches, almost always the less than glorious one: I will never be the virtous knight like Bk, but the jerk, the braggant, the imposter, the ignorant fool. For me male characters are only bearable if played with a tongue-in-the-cheek twist to them. I believe from the bottom of my heart that the most prominent characteristic of the gender, I am a less than proud member of, is that we are almost always only one step away from making a complete fool out of ourselves as we are hardly ever half as strong, smart, tough and competent as we think we are. We might not be the weaker, but certainly the more ridiculous sex. Sorry guys. http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...es/biggrin.gif That probably qualifies as high treason. http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...es/biggrin.gif



I would just like to go on record as saying that you make a good Jerk http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...iles/smile.gif you know what I mean. You play the tongue in cheek well. Just so long as you know everyone else does here, too, then we will all be ok. Plus, you make a good foil for the rest of us to play off of. Guys like BK need a Guy like Ramon thrice to have something to rally against. If it weren't for you, BK would be a little boring.

SO, lets just let this freefall to the bottom of whereever posts freefall to. Yellow police tape, game over.

BK


Griever 03-09-2001 12:19 AM

sheesh.. now we all get mushy inside... ok now go kiss and make up!!! http://www.tgeweb.com/ironworks/cgi-...iles/smile.gif

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