For some reason every time I sleep the game crashes! Any help appriciated.

When did this start happening?

right after I left the Planer Sphare to give 9000 to Ribald and when I came back for the mage I couldn't rest! please help!

Never happened to me. Have you downloaded the final patch?

no I'll try also how do you speed up your computer?

Upgrade it?

it still dosen't work! Any help please!

when you ask how to speed up your computer I assume you are reffering to overclocking your proccessor.
If you want to over clock theres usually not some level you can just go raise (unless you have a wicked motherboad) what you are going to want to do is locate the jumpers on your mother board that sets system speed and simply move them to the desired pins.
I highly reccomend against doing this unless you are 100% sure of what you are doing though.

is it just me or is this the buggiest game ever?

Maybe I've been lucky but I've only had 2 bugs the entire game played through twice. I don't think it's buggy at all.

please help me!

This happened to me to. But I fixed it. I saw that Aerie got an "babble desease" hehe.. (bug) she didn´t stopped talking, so she had this talk icon at her picture. Maybe this happened to you? Check if one of your character got the "babble desease".. Didn´t you understand? Well.. Look if any of your character got the speciall "talk icon" at their picture on the right of the screan. It looks like a mounth.. hehe.. Hope you´ll understand...

Hehe.. I maybe can write how I did to get rid of the "babble desease" O used the Aerie and letted her spoke to her uncle Qualle, and then the bug was gone! =)