I know the right thing to say would be Family by miles, but I seriously don't know.

I never understood why family should be set first... I chose my friends because I like the people they are... I was born with my family.

I would have to say family first (Wife, kids, parents, brothers and sisters) and include several of my friends in that statement, the friendship has gotten to the point where they are family and I would do anything in my power to help them, just as I would for the family I was born to, and married to (I don't consider Ruby's family as family or even friendly aquaintences, merely people I'm forced to tolerate due to unfortunate circumstances)

then the rest of my friends,

and of course I have no GF, just a wife, who is well, duh... family :D