Cerek |
03-18-2005 11:57 PM |
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Originally posted by Q'alooaith:
So let me see if I understand what your saying..
<font color=yellow>If you've got a high, or above average IQ and get good grades you must therfor have poor social skills..</font>
I find that offensive, the sort of trash that people spew after they've finished an IQ test and got less than the guy next door...
There are far more examples of less than steller intelligences being rather rude and obnoxious.. I used to rate between 114-150 IQ points, dunno how I'd rate nowadays..
One of my mates IQ is around the 90 mark, and he's a rude thoughtless SOB..
You get nasty smart people, you get nasty dumb people, learn it, live with it.
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<font color=plum>No, <font color=yellow>Q'alooaith</font>, you apparantly do not understand what I'm saying. I did NOT say that those with above average IQ must have poor social skills. I said I have a personal friend with a genius-level IQ that has a significant lack of social skills and that I had seen this correlation more than once. His lack of social skills has nothing to do with being rude or nasty towards people. He isn't. He simply does not have good interactive social skills. He does tend to seem a bit arrogant to others at times because he is knowledgeable in many different areas (he used to read old college textbooks when he was still in elementary school) and he often believes HIS knowledge is superior to anybody else's, but he is not deliberately arrogant. It's just the way he presents himself and some of the statements he makes. <font color=lime>Pritchke</font> gave a similar example based on personal experience, though the fellow in his example does sound like the arrogance may be deliberate.
This reinforces what I read in the MSN article I mentioned. People with high IQ's sometimes have a harder time "thinking outside the box" for two reasons (from my own observations).
1) According to the article, they don't always know how to apply rules or theories to problems that aren't "textbook" examples.
2) They have a tendency to believe their solution IS the best (and only really correct) solution to the problem or dilemma. So they aren't always willing to consider alternative solutions.
I have not said this is true for ALL people with exceptionally high IQ's. I didn't even say it happens in most cases. All I said was that I've seen this correlation more than once.</font>
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