Hi there Moni, too bad about your family, but of course there will NEVER be anyone else who is able to get in digs like family, they know where all the buttons are located....*yuck*

Here is my horrible, awful, death is preferred as an alternative punishment should (when!) you let the karma-sucking leeches back in for another nip of psychic blood.......hold yr breath....

If you let them back in, directions to your current place of residence will be mysteriously mailed to them so they can FIND YOU IN PERSON!!!!!!!BWHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!! :D
btw, where did you say you lived now????????? [img]smile.gif[/img]

[ 04-24-2002, 12:44 AM: Message edited by: J.J. ]

Aelia Jusa,
That is a definite horrible threat!
Its on the list! :D

I learned many years ago that I am just fine the way I am and that my mother has some serious issues (starting with I am the only one of her kids that looks "just like" my dad...she has used that against me all my life, but I don't mind 'cause my dad was a good looking man LOL) She did manage to make my childhood and teen years a living hell and I grew up thinking it was me but once the full picture came into focus, she got really ugly inside. She's horrible enough to be nicknamed Satan's advisor and she has earned the title.
I love her in spite of herself and I think that is what pisses her off the most.

Megabot,
You are so sweet!
Don't worry about me, I am going to be OK!
I just needed to rant!
This thread should serve as inspiration to people who think their families are bad LOL...my family make them look like pretty nice people after all! ;)

I am glad that you and your mom have a good relationship. My son and I are best friends and I feel very blessed...I could have easily turned out like my mom!

School is out in two weeks and I'll have at least a month to just kick back and enjoy doing nothing. [img]smile.gif[/img] Like I said, I am going to be OK!
*HUGS*
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LOL! Hey this is fun!
I can't wait to put them all on a banner across the wall in front of my desk!

I'm really sorry that you have to deal with family like that too! :(
It really sux huh?
*HUGS*
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On a lighter note...
I had to invent the off switches for my buttons...I am hoping that tonight is the last off switch I'll ever have to make cause I'll never be able to get a good tan with all these switches/buttons on me! ;) [img]tongue.gif[/img]

I would think the continued suffering caused by prolonged exposure to these people would be enough to disuade you [img]smile.gif[/img]
Pretty much the best deterrant from meeting with such people are the people themselves. I should remember that the next time I try to hook up with a certain few "friends"..

My family isn't THAT bad, though a few of them are, or perhaps I'm just not noticing it yet. But I don't get along with my family either, except for a couple of my cousins I really can't stand most of them since they treat me pretty unpleasantly.

They always expect me to be unable to do ANYTHING on my own, whenever ANYTHING goes wrong at home my father blames ME first and looks at what's wrong afterwards. They don't respect me at all :(

Don't let it get to you though Moni, you've got friends [img]smile.gif[/img]

A threat to keep you from doing that, eh? How about: We'll tie you to a chair and force you to listen to Britney Spears and other shitty pop until your brain melts and runs out your ears [img]tongue.gif[/img]

Well Moni, I don't really know what to tell you. To be completely honest I don't really know much of my family very well. I know a couple of cousins, my uncles and aunts, and that's about it. Everybody else gets on my nerves and is usually ignored. My brother and sister can be cool, but I always felt like i'll never be what my parents want me to. *Thank you mom and dad* :rolleyes: Well enough about me.

Moni you seem to have made up your mind already on what you plan to do. If your mom is such a b*tch, don't bother wasting talking to her. A person like that isn't worth your time at all. Your sister is a different story. Maybe you can talk a little bit of sense to her? It's worth a try. [img]smile.gif[/img]

Oh you wanted a threat? Well I could send my personal hitman to chat with you. [img]tongue.gif[/img] He could come up with something i'm to innocent.

You are wise beyond your years! Thank you! That one gets a page all its own :D

Wow that is a pretty harsh reaction coming from an 80 year old woman!
Maybe she is afraid she won't make it to her next birthday and thought herself important enough that everyone should be there, no excuses allowed?
I'd call her after she cools off and try to explain why you weren't there with her on her birthday...follow that up with a visit and a gift or flowers?

Ugh, my mom was the same way...she'd punish me for stuff I didn't do and tell me sometimes "Well you would do it so consider this punishment in advance...and don't expect that this means you'll go unpunished when you actually do it"
Great Logic there

Love your threat LOL!

Well I got an e-mail from my sister today and I opened it out of morbid curiosity lol...she said everything I expected her to and more.
She's mad at me and honestly, I think this time I'd prefer to leave it that way...I mean I wrote her back and tols her I was sorry she had to be mad at me about it...that she should be taking her problem with the whole situation up with mom since mom is the one who got her into it but I'd rather that she just wrote me off completely and stayed out of my life if it has to keep coming around to her and mom vs me.

I'll be fine without them I've been doing it for more years since I left home than I've had them around if you can understand what I just said lol.
:D :D :D :D :D :D