Wow, I'm glad I wasn't on last night, 'cause I would have taken this thread an ENTIRELY different direction .. ehm...http://www.tgeweb.com/cgi-bin/ubb/no...iles/smile.gif

I agree that it is the little things that turn the axis of a relationship. Calling her when you are thinking about her. Giving her flowers when neither one of you has done anything to warrent it. Just because. Having a tape of her favorite songs in your car so when she gets in, you have it ready. Finding out what those songs are... buying food for her at your place so she has something there to eat (some people need more than beer, pop, pretzels and chips). Buying contact case/solution even though you don't have contacts. Making time each week to venture into the other person's world a little. Watch a movie that she wants to see in return for her watching the game with you, or having her get involved in your RPG. Knowing what the little things are that can make your relationship work better IS the big thing. http://www.tgeweb.com/cgi-bin/ubb/no...iles/smile.gif

BK

Well, BK, you are the man! http://www.tgeweb.com/cgi-bin/ubb/no...miles/wink.gif

my apologies for offending anyone with my whinings lol but it looked like a good place to vent.

Personally, I am one who believes the little things are inportant on both ends of the relationship. I do little things for friendships too...you can never have enough love and happiness in your life, unless of course, the other person is an emotionally obsessed, overbearing, soul smothering, life-sucking loser. http://www.tgeweb.com/cgi-bin/ubb/no...miles/wink.gif

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well, moni, dont worry bout it! i whine all the time.. and peeps are getting sick of it. so its okay to whine just a lil! j/k! http://www.tgeweb.com/cgi-bin/ubb/no...es/biggrin.gif

anyways, umm... guys... i should ask a different question... which do you love more,

small or big things?

dont make it complimentary, moreso just a mere comparison

ex: a business recognition or popcorn and a movie? get?

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If the business recognition invloves a substantial raise, hand it over lol!
Otherwise, give me the movie and popcorn with a soda to wash it all down.
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Hey, thanks for letting me whine LOL! I promise I'll keep it to a minimum!

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Small things definitely... A grand present at Christmas time, a new jacket or shoes on your b-day is all good mind you, but I look for the day to day small things, bring me a cold drink when you see me sweating...put things away after you use them, a little kind word of re-assurance to show me that it matters. A warm touch and kiss in a grid locked traffic jam..I could go on.
For all those who have felt these things slip a little just start on your side, and see whats left. I have found out in the past that once these little things are gone so is the intimacy in most cases. You have to try yourself thow..even if things dont work, you will know that you did try. If anybody needs to have an ear for awhile I am here. I have seen my share.But dont think that if you do these little things that you will automatically fix things..I thought that when my first wife was fading it was my fault. She was cheating on me...blah. blah She faded away herself. Nothing I could do. Well, Im rambling now..
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Dawg, I am SOOO with you on that one...mine picked up a little habit called Matt, and Marc, and Troy, and....damn, that sucks.....anyway, I feel for ya.

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Your the lucky mine picked up herpes http://www.tgeweb.com/cgi-bin/ubb/no...iles/smile.gif j/k

hey!

this is not as funny as it should be. i like this thread of mine to be lil sentimental and make peeps think for awhile.. its not that depressing anyways.


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I think the most important part of any successful relationship with a female is that I have to be the male in it

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