I think I'm in the 'don't look for trouble' line on this one and agree with LadyZ. Try to stay away from her til she finds something else to be involved in rather than your life! [img]smile.gif[/img]

Hmm. Well. I'd look at it like this. First I'd have broken up with her the first time she cheated on me. Next I'd sever all ties with her and give her the cold shoulder. I wouldn't deal with that crap, dude. And as for your current situation, focus on your current girl, and ignore the crazy who's bugging you. Let your current girlfriend know that despite your ex going nuts on you (Maybe she has some strange obsession and wants you back?) that you're not going to let it ruin your relationship with her.

Or go up to the crazy girl and work that pimp hand! KER SLAP! Just joking, of course. ;) Good luck, man!

She sounds like a nice enough girl, can i have her phonenumber ? [img]graemlins/hehe.gif[/img]

LOL Johnny! I have a phone number some scary guy who walked up to me in the middle of the street gave to me when I was 16--his name that came with the number was 'Lestor the Molestor'!! (shudders at the bad memory). :eek:

As to the topic at hand:
I actually had a very similar situation back when I first started college quite a few years ago. I do not know how you felt about this girlfriend, but I was crazy about mine. When she cheated on me, I forgave her, figuring everyone deserves to make at least one mistake.

However, when she (falsely) accused me of cheating on her and began harassing me, I officially and publically (she was yelling at me in the middle of the campus) broke our fling off and severed all ties.

The cold shoulder worked like a champ! After a short time of her making an ass of herself with no response from me, the stopped having anything to do with me.

Now that I think about that girl, she was a real "B" with and "ITCH" :D Hope everything goes well with you!

Rule #1 with women is learning to shut the hell up about your personal life with them. if you did make up with this girl, now there's a whole community of online people who know she whored around, and you took it like a little beatch. How could it ever work now? Most people never learn how to keep the personal crap, well, personal.

well... he *was* asking for advice on the matter....

And, personally, Iwould have to agree with Lady Z on this. Ignore her the best you can, either she will get bored, will get laughed at, or just get angry and go away. Either way, you win ;)

You can always start telling everyone she's a bad kisser (or worse..!!), or pretend she has other physical difficiencies.

Yeah, Kyrvias, I know, and Lady Z gave her usual sage advice. Plus, any post containing Kung Fu Gal is a good thing, by its very nature.

Regardless, I see people do this all the time. They talk about their problems with their mate, only to regret it later. Think about it. If you are able to work through the doozie issues with your mate, do you really want people to know what you went through? Trust me, you'll feel much better on the back side of these things if you just learn how to STFU. My 2 cents.

ROFLMAO!

My late tuppence... Cold shoulder all the way, but be sure to talk with your current GF about it. Otherwise, the old one may decide to use that bit of info as blackmail evidence, so to speak... go out with me, or I'll tell her all about you.

I had a psycho GF once. I'm still not sure where reality ended and fiction began... and since part of that reality/fiction involved one of the local mafia families, I decided not to find out anything more about it.