Elif, no apology needed. HUGS! I understand completely- your loss is recent and it's normal to think about it - I hope I didn't depress you with my post about my friends!

Argh.. the hair issue.. LOL, well, I'll tell you what my own dad decreed for me when I was a kid. After I hit the age of 9 or 10 he said that I had to have it cut to my shoulders every summer before school started until I could take care of it properly on my own and I think I was in junior high when that happened! LOL Good luck with that and many kind and sympathetic thoughts for you right now. [img]smile.gif[/img]

I suspect your dad would be laughing with you on the hair problem Elif! My Dad was always Always! telling us we had to cut our hair because it took too long to get ready. I miss him as you do your dad. On a parallel thread - why is it that men like long hair on their women as long as they don't have to wait for it? Almost without exception the men I've talked to prefer long hair over short! (I guess dating it and being dad to it are two entirely different things - well, Duh!)LOL
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No worries Cloudy <hugs> just feeling a bit blue is all. [img]graemlins/rant.gif[/img] I still have to dealwith that sucubus of a girl friend of his, so usualy when I think of him she seems to come right behind and get my dander up. She is trying to sue for her services of power of attornery and medical surrogate, all of which I fought with her over, even was getting a court date set up to have her removed, what gaul she has, big titanium ones I tell ya. My dads lawyer made the mistake of calling her my step mother, I simply told him to call her a mother is to damn all other mothers out there, she is unworthy of that name, her oldest son commited suicide about 2 years ago now and left her a very nice note, it was yet another bone of contention(sp?) between her and my father, and her other son joined the peace corps and lives somwhere in south Africa. Cant get much further away then that !!! I will be happy when all this sordid business is done so that I can get on with things, I havent even had the time to spread my father's ashes because of the wench tieing everything up. I feel no love or even kinship with this woman, even people who have done some really rotten things to myself have nothing on the way I feel about this woman. She is a waste of space and does not deserve the title of Human being, because she is is far from human !!

I like hair on woman either way, just short hair on some woamn just doesnt look right. ;)

Elif, it's gonna feel so good when you don't have to deal with that woman anymore, isn't it? [img]smile.gif[/img] We'll throw a party! :D

Mysti, I know! But at least my guy will brush it now and then! :D

Elif good to hear from you, even if you are blue. Did you see your birthday thread? My regards to your family.

I wanted to grow my hair long...but it takes ages to even get to the top of my neck...and the hairdresser cut it all off, even though I only wanted it neatened up...dammit!

Anyway, otherwise feeling great! Though my sister finishes school for the summer tomorrow! Ah, help me! :D

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Something ahead in the distance, a light...perhaps an Oasis..

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