Wendy, i thought that he meant that two guys or chasing one girl and the girl isn't dating neither. I Might have seen it wrong but that's the way i saw it.

In this unlikely scenario I choosed forget about the girl.
Why?
Well first of all, I usually end up loosing anyway ;) so this is a chance to be a good-looser kinda.

girl's perspective.

if i date 2 guys who are friends, it's only because i don't want a single boyfriend. which means i am not serious about either one, just having fun. i'm also prolly dating other guys.

so if you guys get all bent outta shape about it, enough to fight and get angry, then you can't be very good friends. if i see you get all bent over a coupla of dates, i'd prolly stop dating both of you.

V***V

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ps: not to hijack the thread, but just from curiosity.....

~~~ what if??? ~~~
Original Question:
You and your best friend both like the same girl. What do you do?

what if you throw a monkey wrench into this and find out that the 2 best friends are a guy and a girl? does this change anyone's response?

[ 05-30-2002, 05:39 AM: Message edited by: vesselle ]

I would say it just depends more on the personalities of the friends and the girl.
Well a page out of my own life, I had a friend and we were best mate and then we met this girl one night out, the usual happans we spend more night out have some fun, till we both end up. liitle puppets to her every desire, so me my firend made this agreement if either of us scores then the other does't get mad and the on with the girl helps the other to find some one else.
And what do you know it worked just though talking and comunicating, and I was the lucky one.

well lets see if me and a guy friend are chasing after the same girl i can always get more guy friends

Mmmmmm... does the girl get a say in all this? [img]tongue.gif[/img]
Maybe she doesn't want either guy [img]tongue.gif[/img]

One way of looking at it..and I'm going to take the totally mercenary route here..One guy should let the other go for it, if it works he's still your mate, and he owes you :D

It eally does depend on circumstance. If you REALLY like the girl, go for it. Otherwise, just try vaguely, or not at all.

it depends. if the bastardly friend is trying to steal the girlfriend, then i choose the girlfriend. if not, then i really dont know what to say. maybe ill choose both and start doing.. group activities with them :D [img]tongue.gif[/img]

Girls are easy to come by (unless your me :( ), whereas best friends are not.