The relationship dialogue with Aerie will start soon. Don't sweat it, it takes time. She's not THAT kind of girl who will sleep with you 1 day after meeting you. Give her a week or so.

Also you can kill Cowled Wizards in the street if you are willing to lose 7 rep points. As for Spellhold...well it has its own rules...

Switch to a woman and hook up with (yuck) Anomen.

*looks up Siskel & Ebert's Movie Guide to Most-Loved Movie Cliches*

BaatoRyan, you have identified the difference between "having sex" and "making love" and you'll soon be able to identify which girl goes with which! If not, hey no big deal, there's always Mrs Palmer and the Five Daughters if you know what I mean...